The "why" behind teaching your children the correct anatomical names for his/her body parts
Should you or shouldn't you teach your children the correct names for their private body parts?
When my kids were little, I had a huge fear that we would be out in public, and they would start talking about their private body parts. Now when I think about it, it was a pretty ridiculous fear. I don't ever remember my kids walking around telling everyone they had an elbow or a shin. The only times they would talk about an elbow or shin was if they got hurt on the elbow or shin. Is teaching our kids the correct anatomical names for their private body parts any different?
We act embarrassed or ashamed and use incorrect names, which sends the message that genitals are shameful, naughty, or bad. This actually increases risks of child sexual abuse. If children feel a sense of shame or secrecy for their private body parts, they may be afraid to tell anyone if someone is abusing them in those areas. They may be afraid they will get in trouble, or that it isn't something they can talk about. Perpetrators target children who appear to be innocent, shy, or less likely to report abuse. A child who uses anatomically correct terms is less appealing as a potential victim because they are more likely to report it. Children who know the correct names have the vocabulary to articulate if someone does something inappropriate.
It is important to teach children that their private body parts are private and off-limits to others and that we keep them covered, but they are not so private that we can't respectfully use their proper names.
Teaching kids the appropriate terms for their body parts also helps build confidence, self-esteem, and self-love. They have a more positive body image and get the message that their whole body is normal and natural.
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